I didn’t have the most traditional route to becoming a published author, starting with, but not limited to, being (quite) dyslexic. I also had a fairly intensive job, two kids, two step sons and a husband to look after. But life has a way of twisting down unexpected paths, and even when disaster strikes, sometimes there is an obvious silver lining.
Despite struggling with words, particularly getting them down on paper, I have always written. When I’ve needed to make sense of emotions, or understand something, I’ve always written my thoughts down, so I guess in a way I have always been a writer of sorts, but I never had any ambition of being published.
Back in August 2015 I had a wobble that resulted in breaking both of my legs, at the same time. I know, I know! Breaking one is bad luck, but breaking both is just careless. Anyway, this post isn’t about that (I can hear a collective sigh of relief!) but if you appreciate the macabre, you can read all about what it was like and how I got back on my feet again here.
Needless to say though, because I completely mangled one of them, I was off my feet for a LONG time. So for the first time in probably well over ten years, I had a lot of space to think, be creative, and not just fire fight all the time. To be honest, that was cool, it was breathing space, and I needed it.
With all that space, my mind began to roam, and pictures started to take shape.
Now whenever I wasn’t at home, with two legs in casts, my day job was, and still is, as an Environmental Education Officer, and I have two boys, who have potentially never given the environment a second thought. So this is what was giving the pictures in my head some shape.
I wanted to teach them that they needed to start considering the impact that they (and we all) have on this planet, but I didn’t want to lecture. At least one, and probably both of my boys are autistic, communication sometimes needs to come in from an adjacent direction and I wanted it to be fun. So, I wrote a story, one that I hoped they could relate to, especially since we were in the run up to Christmas.
What if Santa couldn’t make any toys because we had used up all the Earth’s resources? We watch a lot of David Attenborough, so the boys already know that Santa is in a bit of a fix because the North Pole is melting; this would really compound matters. Would the idea of potentially no Christmas presents focus their minds?
The short answer to that was undoubtedly yes. Christmas, with no presents horrified their capitalist little minds, I had my hook. I should say that when I told them the story, I didn’t say anything about me writing it, and they were hanging on every word and if I told them I wrote it, that would have diminished the effect. I was curious about their focus which was unusual, the youngest can struggle with concentration, so this made me wonder about how others might react; it also gave me the confidence to test a wider audience. Again, the feedback was really good.
This is where planets must have been in alignment for a brief moment, because a new publishing house was opening in Belfast, and there was a call for authors to pitch their work. They were open to all pitches, and I had nothing to lose. So I sent them the manuscript… which they accepted.
Holy Cow – I was going to be a published author!
Hang on… A children’s book NEEDS pictures. I can draw a little bit, but I am not an illustrator. Enter stage left, my sculptress friend.
I met Jo in the P1 playground. Our boys were in the same class, and d’you know how sometimes you just get a good feeling about someone? Well, I had that about her, and kind of pounced on the poor girl, and told her we were going to be friends. Which we are, and as it turns out we have LOADS in common beyond the boys (she’s a fellow veggie, a hippy chick and all round good egg).
Yep, that Jo also happens to be an exceptionally talented artist, who admittedly usually works in 3D. But I have no shame, and asked if she would draw me some illustrations – she said yes!
So amid the flurry of editing, and re-editing the text, and turning the (proper!) hand drawn illustrations into digital images – for which I have another friend to thank (thank you Bob!) I was finally ready to send everything to my publisher – Tina Calder at Excalibur Press Belfast.
Bear in mind this is a Christmas book; it’s now mid October and I’m walking on a zimmer frame.
Still, somehow or other, Tina did her do, wove her magic, and got the project turned round, It’s November, I had my book. Now what?
It needs launched. Remarkably for NI one of our local MLA’s is Steven Agnew is from the Green Party; admittedly it was a bit brazen, but I sent him a copy. My wee story, the one wot I wrote for my kids, was endorsed by the NI Green Party! I was invited to launch it at Stormont (that’s the NI Parliament). Pinch me I’m dreaming!
So there it is. My Book, The Letter From Santa is out there. Its endorsed by the Green Party and I use it in my work with Belfast City Council, reading it to school children during December. Given my background, it’s set up to deliver quite a large section of the NI Curriculum (The World Around Us) and fits very neatly into the P5 year.
I have since recorded an audio version that is available with a Christmas Card and am almost ready to launch a second edition with an activity pack.
Had I not wobbled that fateful day in August, none of this would ever have happened. Now I’m left with a weakness in that leg, it’ll never be exactly as it was, and it was a hell of a road to recovery, but it wasn’t all bad. In the end it gave me an opportunity to surprise myself, jump out of my comfort zone and reach a new goal.
If you are in the middle of a challenging time right now, I can empathise. I’m not going to tell you everything will be alright, or that your life will go back to how it was before, but you might find some unexpected bonuses, or strengths you never knew you had.
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This is amazing! How did I not know this story?? So glad you shared this 😉
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Aw cool! I am caught between a rock and a hard place, I HATE marketing myself, I totally suck at it. \there are some folk who are natural sales people – I am NOT one of them and almost feel apologetic (which is totally wrong) for promoting it.
Somehow or other I need to get over that, particularly with this, because it’s a good story. I read it to over 50 classes last year, and it always goes down really, really well. The children get involved, ask questions afterwards and I have had some lovely feedback
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I shared it on my FB. 🙂
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Thank you hun! xxxxx
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A wonderful and encouraging story. thank you. 🙂
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Thank you! 😀
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This is the best news ever! I love your back story too. I am inspired xx congratulations!! Will be putting this on the list for sure!
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aw Orla xxx thank you
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Would type more but child crawling all over me …😣🙄
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LOL. Mama! Joys of parenting lol 😂
Xxxxx
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I cannot open link to buy a copy but please forward a link by Twitter etc soon and I definitely will. Ideal for my gang x
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super! DM? I’ll check that link too I know on Amazon I have to type in Letter from Santa Book, otherwise a load of other stuff outranks me
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Great, I will sort that. Thank you! Nice gudt coming up to Xmas
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I hope so! 🎅🏼🤶🏼🎄🎁
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I didn’t realise that the legs were the story behind the book. How wonderful that something good came out of that episode.
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Yes, I was forced into slowing down and honestly there was much more good than just the book – though that’s a biggie.
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I’ll say.
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Congratulations Sonia, you have so much to be proud of. I can relate to the difficulty of stringing words together in the correct format! Yes, life has a habit of throwing up unexpected “events”.
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It took me so long to learn how to write legibly, I was nearly at secondary school but obviously still way behind everyone else.
Curveballs. Lol!
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The tortoise wins the race 🙂 Yep, got to love those curveballs!!
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I always loved that story, it always gave me hope! ❤️
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So the lesson is throw yourself off the back door step, break both legs in a sort of one person mafia hit, utilise your enforced recovery period to write a brilliant book about the most depressing subject currently around and get published. Yay, Sonia, I can do that! Genius. You should write a self destruct book ‘How I got my big breaks’. PS I am delighted. This isn’t authorial envy. No, not at all. Really…
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Yeah, wouldn’t be for everyone but… pretty much 😜
It’s obvious really, if you broke your arms you couldn’t type
😂😂😂
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I know you’d thought it through before you launched yourself into that literary maelstrom
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Ha! If I had thought it through, I would have written something with a sales window a bit larger than 6-8 weeks lol!
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Wow congratulations Sonia, lovely story, well done you!
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Ta 😘
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Sometimes things just happen for a reason. It’s great something so amazing came out of what must have been a difficult time. Congratulations! I’m sure mynieces would love this, and hopefully get them thinking too.
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That would be cool! I was just saying to Amelia that it was important to me to hang on to anything that would help me keep my chin up.
I was very focused in my recovery but there were times when it was very useful having a project that kept my mind from dwelling on less positive stuff
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I know just what you mean. It’s great having something you can focus on and that you still have the ability to do.
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That is incredible. You took a difficult time and ran for it. Making the most out of it not just you and your family but everyone else also. Good lesson in “what can I do now” in any situation. Don’t give up look around and “what can I do now” and you did. Inspirational. thank you.
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It was important to me from a mental health point of view to seize any positive; “if I can’t do this maybe I can do that”. It would have been really easy to go under but I remembered Stephen Sutcliff, who was a huge inspiration to me and kept him as a role model.
It was a good way of blocking out some of the limiting aspects of what happened. I’m touched that you are inspired by it 😘
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Hi, #BryntinsBLT came by your blog today.
(Unfortunately the BLT bit stands for Blog Leap Tour, not that I am about to bring you a tasty sandwich.)
I’ll be leaving a link to this post on a #BryntinsBLT post on my blog later today and will now be leaping off to visit someone who has already liked your post before I got here.
The idea is just to randomly jump around and see where I go in the world and I hope the (sparse but growing) readers of my blog, seeing me discover yours, might leap around the links too.
(If you have pingbacks turned on you can see where it came from if you like and join in the touring!)
Anyway, sorry to interrupt. Carry on.
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Fabulous – thanks Bryntin
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Came here via Bryntin – after she was shared by Stevie Turner. Thus proving that BLT works! And congratulations on your inspiration and your success.
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Fantastic – Bryntin will be chuffed to know that it is working. Also – welcome 😁 and thank you. It’s all very small scale to be honest – but that’s ok, it still makes me smile that I managed to do it 😁
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This is incredible Sonia, good on you for being so pro-active and going for it! Thoroughly deserved xx
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Thank you 🙏 it is ultra small scale, but I get a kick out of seeing how well children respond to it during readings.
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